The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking ( Guidelines from Dorothy Carnegie's book based on Dale Carnegie's)

Fundamentals of Effective Speaking
1. Acquiring the Basic Skills
♥Take heart from the experience of others
♥Keep your goal before you
♥Predetermine your mind to success
♥Seize every opportunity to practice
2. Developing Confidence
♥Get the facts about fear of speaking in public
♥Prepare in the proper way
♥Predetermine your mind to success
♥Act confident
3. Speaking Effectively the Quick and Easy Way
♥Speaking about something you have earned the right to talk about through experience or study
♥Be sure you are excited about your subject
♥Be eager to share your talk with your listeners
Speech, Speaker, and Audience
4. Earning the Right to Talk
♥Limit your subject
♥Develop reserve power
♥Fill your talk with illustrations and examples
♥Use concrete, familiar words that create pictures
5. Vitalizing the Talk
♥Choose subjects you are earnest about
♥Relive the Feelings you have about your topic
♥Act in earnest
6. Sharing the Talk with the Audience
♥Talk in terms of your listeners' interests
♥Give honest, sincere appreciation
♥Identify yourself with the audience
♥Make your audience a partner in your talk
♥Play yourself down
The Purpose of Prepared and Impromptu Talks
7. Making the Short Talk to Get Action
♥Give your example, an incident from your life
♥State your point, what you want the audience to do
♥Give the reason or benefit the audience may expect
8. Making the Talk to Inform
♥Restrict your subject to fit the time at your disposal
♥Arrange your ideas in sequence
♥Enumerate your points as you make them
♥Compare the strange with the familiar
♥Use visual aids
9. Making the Talk to Convince
♥Win confidence by deserving it
♥Get a Yes-response
♥Speakin with contagious enthusiasm
♥Show respect and affection for your audience
♥Begin in a friendly way
10. Making Impromptu Talks
♥Practice impromptu speaking
♥Be mentally ready to speak impromptu
♥Get into an example immediately
♥Speak with animation and force
♥Use the principle of the Here and the Now
♥Don't talk impromptu--Give an impromptu talk
The Art of Communicating
11. Delivering the Talk
♥Crash through your shell of self-consciousness
♥Don't try to imitate others--Be yourself
♥Converse with your audience
♥Put your heart into your speaking
♥Practice making your voice strong and flexible
The Challenge of Effective Speaking
12. Introducing Speakers, Presenting and Accepting Awards
♥Thoroughly prepare what you are going to say
♥Follow the T-I-S Formula
♥Be enthusiastic
♥Thoroughly prepare the talk of presentation
♥Express your sincere feelings in the talk of acceptance
13. Organizing the Longer Talk
♥Get attention immediately
♥Avoid getting unfavorable attention
♥Support your main ideas
♥Appeal for action
14. Applying What You Have Learned
♥Use specific detail in everyday conversation
♥Use effective speaking techniques in your job
♥Seek Opportunities to speak in public
♥You must persist

♥Keep the certainty of reward before you

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