The relationship between wife and husband is so strong on one side of the coin and at the same time it is also so weak on the other side of the coin. That is why, sometimes, the misunderstandings differences of opinion that crop up make them to get separated from one another that is leading to divorce. It is not a good affair in any family life.
18 points for happy family life between man and woman:
1. Basically, there is a difference in thinking pattern of both male and female. When a male came to know that a female loves him, then only the male understands the inner feelings present in him. But the female expresses her opinions, when she feels that she is safe and has got the support of others.
2. Male should learn the technique of how to be a good listener. Female wishes that the male should speak nicely and lovely, otherwise she thinks that her partner does not love her heart fully.
3. Generally males do not like other’s suggestion, regarding what they have to do. Females do not like the advice given by others, to change their mentality.
4. Men keep quiet when they face problems where as the women could not keep quiet without talking, in those circumstances.
5. Man requests the help of others, when he needs help. But the female expects that her partner should take the initiative to know her needs beforehand and come forward to help her.
6. It is a big challenge to the husband to support his wife while she is talking. But the wife faces a big challenge to give support to him while he was silent.
7. Men speak only when they want to say anything whereas women speak when they wish to express their opinions.
8. Men wants that women should believe him. But a woman expects that men must listen to her words and also should understand her properly.
9. Men mainly concentrate on problem solving methods and that is why that they don’t spend time on listening. But woman satisfies if somebody listens to her problem only, and she is not bother about solving it.
10. Praising satisfies the ego of the males, but conversation satisfies the mentality of the female.
11. Husband argues that he has the right to have freedom, where as wife argues that she has the right of suffering.
12. When in depression, men become introverted whereas a woman looks for men’s support.
13. Men take it as a big challenge to take the responsibility if any wrong committed by him, but women take it as a challenge to forgive and leave it.
14. Man likes to have such type of woman who should say “I am for you only’’ whereas woman wishes to have such a man who should say at least four times in a day as ‘’I love you’’.
15. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
16. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he does not. A man marries a woman expecting that he won’t change, but she does.
17. A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
18. Husband feels that he succeeded in life when he observed happiness in her face whereas wife feels success in her life when she observed that her husband really sincerely showing love towards her.
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