If you wish to become a most successful person (leader) in life, you have to follow certain things in your daily life.
1. Stop worrying:Never worry about the past things as past is past. And also not worry about the future as it cannot be predicted correctly. By thinking about those things which are not under our control, there is every chance of occurring bad rather than good. Always think about in the present and act accordingly. It is a good process to rectify the past mistakes and prepare the plans for the future.
2. Love Yourself:Never underestimate yourself, irrespective of the defects, if at all present, in you. Nobody is born perfectly in this world. Always love yourself, your individuality and your family.
3. Self confidence:If you have self confidence, it is well and good, even if nobody is with you. Self confidence develops courage in you and you can achieve your goal in life.
4. Think positively:Never develop negative thoughts, which spoil one’s career.We can solve so many problems by positive thinking. We know that hope is life and doubt is death.
5. Feel Assertive:Nobody has the right to degrade you,(unless you commit any mistake).Always fight for your rights and at the same time have peaceful mind. If you don’t like anything, never hesitate to express your opinion of disliking openly. Otherwise you have to face troubles.
6. Energize Yourself: Always try to develop skills present in you and encourage yourself often and on which acts as a booster to your mind. Troubles might interfere in your daily activities and programmes, bur never abandon that work in the middle, and proceed to continue to do it with great enthusiasm. Never get despair.
7. Motivate Yourself:This is most important thing in one’s life. It is a back bone to our self esteem. Remember that nobody shows much interest to motivate us, instead we have to motivate ourselves often and on. Then success definitely favors us.
8. Excuse critics:There are some people whose business is always to criticize others whether you do good or bad. Never give importance to their comments. Show pity on them. They feel happy if you take notice of their comments and they try to pass more criticism the next day. Hence forgive them through your inner self (mind).
Stop worrying and start living.
5 difficult things to follow in Life
5 Personality Development Tips:
If you follow these 5 simple but difficult tasks in life, we can achieve success by impressing others with our great character.
1. Keeping the secrets to yourself:We feel some sort of uneasiness or distension in our stomach as long as the secrets are in you. Once you reveal them to others- You feel so happy.
2. Telling the truth always:Imagine how difficult it is to be honest and truthful. To lie is human nature even for silly things.
3. Keeping the calm:Thoughts come as a follow. One who controls himself can control others.
4. Confessing the mistakes:It is very difficult to agree in front of others that I have done this mistake. One’s egoism prevents him from saying so. We attribute the causes to others. So, confession requires great courage.
5. Promises should be kept: It is very easy to give promises to others. It is very difficult to keep one’s promises as it requires courage and belief in truth. Truth is God.
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7 common mistakes in our personality
1. The delusion: The individual’s advancement should be made by crushing down the others. But it is a wrong notion.
2. The tendency to worry unnecessarily about the things that can’t be changed or corrected. We can‘t make the dog’s tail straight.
3. Unnecessary arguments: Insisting that a thing is impossible, because we ourselves cannot accomplish it. Nothing is impossible in this world.
4. Short sighted look: Refusing to set aside trivial things, so that important things may be accomplished.
5. Mentality of ‘’I know everything’’: They are of the habit of neglecting development and refinement of the mind and not acquiring the habit of reading and study.
6. Attempting to compel others to do those things which they do not like to do.
7. Interfering in others affairs: It is a bad habit to put our fingers in other people’s personal affairs, without their formal request.
If you wish success in life, you need:
1. Perseverance—your bosom friend.
2. Experience…..Your wise counsel.
3. Caution….. your eider brother.
4. Hope….. Your guardian genius.
To err is human; to correct is divine.
16 causes for the failure
The golden word is failure is the stepping stone to success. Every one is afraid of failures.Characterestics of failed people:
1. They cannot execute their plans successfully.
2. They do not agree to analyse the negative points present in them.
3. They try to conceal the facts and try to deceive others morally.
4. They never think of new thoughts and also not wish to venture to do new things. They like toAdhere to old thoughts only - whether they are good or bad.
5. Obedience and dedication are not found in their dictionary.
6. They run behind in continuing further human relations.
7. They don’t have any estimation and don’t like to utilize their intelligences and energies.
8. They often say luck does not favour them, or their time is not good. It indicates that they are not sincerely attempting to do anything.
9. They afraid of the word “failure”.
10. They have less self-confidence.
11. They consider to do hard work, as weakness.
12. They are stubborn and are of the opinion that whatever they think is correct (even though it is wrong).
13. They are having the butterfly mentality that is not fixed type. They go along with the wind.
14. They own take any trouble to achieve the target.
15. Succss and failure are the two sides of the coin. The failed people always see the negative side only. They do not like to turn the coin to see the other side that is success.
16. Sucess is not as easy as you think. The life histories successful people show that they suffered so many hardships to overcome the failure.
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